A woman who is in her feminine energy will be more sensitive, higher in neuroticism and agreeableness.
From a Tantric point of view it is because you have an open heart, which is your positive pole and you mostly reside here by giving love from your heart, truly being in your feminine (Shakti) energy. So, because a man is direct in his energy it can penetrate through your beautiful open heart and hurt. Our heart and feelings are the connection to the divine. When that is affected it can hurt and cause disharmony in our lives. When then we automatically go into a protective mechanism, closing down our heart and unfortunately, a lot of women are operating from this place due to not fully understanding that it does not feel safe to open their heart. Leaving women operating from their masculine energy, which can cause many issues for women, from relationships to health issues. Once women truly understand that men operate and communicate differently to women. We can work in harmony and communicate in a feminine way to feel heard in our hearts being hurt. This essentially is guiding a man into learning to understand how to protect your heart and care for your emotions.He wont always get this correct (Giving him grace at times is important)!
However, essentially men always want to win with you and make you happy! We need to give him this opportunity to do so, otherwise eventually, it does not go well for either party. It is up to us as a woman to set him up in our communication and guide him to care for our feelings and understand our connection to the divine through them, and what happens when we get hurt.
Ultimately, leaving both of you feeling connected, open and free!!!!
If you desire to learn how to communicate effectively with your partner or any man for that matter, for a limited time I have available 1:1 sessions, before it will move into my couples course!
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